Monday 26 March 2012

So yeah - We left him!

Yep, I left my Husband 1st March 2012. I won't go into too much detail on here (you know what I'm like about my own privacy) but we're all happy and safe - that's all that matters.
Of course I had planned it for a while - however there was limitations in my car for space (it's a standard estate car with 7 seats).
I took as much clothes as I could and other important things like my laptop, DSLR camera and chargers.

I sadly had to leave behind - the triple pushchair, ALL my baby carriers - which includes; 1 Red long wrap and 3 Mei Tais and a purple sling.

When I arrived I found that the pushchair I had been using wasn't up to the daily job of school runs so I bought a Phil and Teds Sport in Navy Blue (with doubles kit).
I've also bought an Ergo (standard), Mei Tai and have just purchased an Ergo Sport (more breathable for the hot, summer weather we're experiencing!).
I enjoy baby-wearing and today being able to take photographs of them on me, I even had the twins on me at one point, #1 on the front in the standard Ergo and #2 on the back in the MT. (As pictured).




I will have to buy another Moon Cup as I left that and my other cup behind.

The last few months I got on well with my Cup, once you've had a period or two with it it does get a lot easier, however I found it only took me 2-3 days to get used to it. I came across an expression of ''mining for gold'' and I loved it, how it rang true - But since I birthed my babies within only a couple of pushes I have seriously strong pelvic floor muscles so I don't have to 'mine' for too long, LOL.

I am enjoying our new house and being a single parent (even though it's hard work). Our house is becoming a home thick and fast, I won't lie - money has been tight but I hope in the next few weeks this sorts itself out. Of course it doesn't help I have to buy things over again while that moron sits on the suite I bought, watching the 42" plasma I bought - etc etc. I hope that maybe the divorce will let me have a few of my things back, even if it isn't things like the TV, I want my computers and hard drives back but most importantly my babies placentas; they are irreplaceable.

I hope you're all keeping well and enjoying this beautiful sunshine. My children are not only enjoying the sunshine but also enjoying a CLEAR and SAFE garden to play in.

God Bless